I'm worried about my child
Move from a vague, escalating worry to two or three observable signals and one clear next step.
If you are the parent
- 1Spotting Depression Behind Ordinary Teenage MoodsThe pattern signals that separate a rough fortnight from something that needs help.Families
- 2What to Say When They Mention Self-HarmStaying calm, asking directly, and going straight to a professional pathway without threat or panic.Families
- 3Noticing Risk Without SurveillanceChoosing observable signals over device monitoring, and saying what you are watching for.Families
- 4Staying Above the Line in a Hard MomentUsing the Inner Map to notice your own state before you respond to theirs.Families
- 5The Alcohol and Drugs Conversation, Before It Is UrgentA harm-reduction conversation that keeps you as a source of information rather than a risk to hide from.Families
- 6Eating, Bodies and the Things Not to SayRemoving appearance commentary from the household and responding to restriction signals early.Families
Episodes on this
- In productionThe Intervention Series
3. When They Stop Talking
With a family systems therapist
- Is silence developmental or is it a signal?
- Why do side-by-side conversations work better than face-to-face?
- In productionThe Intervention Series
9. When Someone Mentions Self-Harm
With a clinical psychologist
- Does asking directly increase risk?
- What are the exact words to use?
- In productionThe Long Handover
4. Noticing Risk Without Surveillance
With an adolescent risk specialist
- What signals are worth watching?
- What does monitoring do to trust?
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