Episode 10

The Unstructured Future

With a career transition coach

StudentsWorking peopleTransitions & What's Next

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1Why is the void after a structured decade so disorienting?
2How do you run a search without an externally set deadline?
3What is a good enough first step?

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When to bring in a person

Self-navigation has a ceiling. Escalate when any one of these is true.

Duration
Same problem, same intensity, two-plus weeks, despite honest attempts.
Drift
It has spread into domains it started nowhere near — sleep, health, home, money, other relationships.
Distortion
You can't tell if your read is accurate. You argue both sides with yourself and neither wins.
Danger
Safety, harassment, coercion, a substance emergency, thoughts of not being here.
Dependence
The only thing holding you stable is a person, substance or ritual you can't step away from.

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